Biggest tidbits from Harry’s ‘extra’ TV interviews
IIt’s been a busy week for Prince Harry and his upcoming memoir Spare not yet officially announced.
When the tabloids spread and illegal copies of the book accidentally made their way into Spanish bookstores. Spare was trashed and made global headlines for its shocking revelations before its official release on Tuesday. It’s a scene from three pre-recorded interviews of Harry discussing his book on a Sunday evening.
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The first interview was with ITV’s Tom Bradby on Sunday at 9pm in the UK. At times, Bradby played devil’s advocate and channeled Harry’s detractors by asking him tough questions, but the royal played it safe by repeating many of the stories he shared in interviews. previous ones. The Duke highlighted the “briefings, leaks and planting” between the royal family and the British press and expressed his desire to leave his true story as a historical artefact.
Harry drove that message home in another interview with Anderson Cooper later that day 60 minutes, this time pointing the finger specifically at the Queen Consort, Camilla, who he says peddled bad stories about other members of the royal family to the press to improve her image. He noted how the Palace’s relationship with the toxic British tabloids affected his mother, Princess Diana, and later his wife, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex.
Here’s what we learned about Harry’s personal relationships with the royal establishment, the British media, and Harry’s various book interviews.
Harry says he has never called his family racist
Prince Harry William’s 83-year-old godmother and long-time housekeeper, Lady Susan Hussey, has explained her understanding of the term “unconscionable” and how it differs from racism as she examines the controversy surrounding it.
Hussey, a former lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth II, apologized and resigned in December after repeatedly asking black British philanthropist Ngozi Fulani “where he really was during the long meeting at the Buckingham Palace event”. dealing with domestic violence. Prince Harry said the competition was a “very good example of the environment” at the royal establishment.
“After our interview with Oprah, they said they were going to bring in the king of diversity. It didn’t happen. Everything they said didn’t happen,” the king said, adding that he never called his family racist, he just showed their unconscious attitudes that they could work with.
Prince Harry said he and Meghan Markle “loved” Hussey and was delighted to hear Fulani had been invited to the palace to discuss what had happened.
“He never meant any harm,” she said of Hussey’s comments. “But the response to the stories from the UK press and netizens has been appalling.”
William tried to stop Harry from having a beard at the wedding
In a more unusual encounter, Harry tells Bradby that William won’t agree to facial hair for the wedding, despite his late grandmother the Queen giving him permission to keep a beard for the 2018 ceremony.
Asked by Bradby what the disagreement was about, Harry replied: “I think it comes down to a lot of things – I call him heir/surrogate and also brother/brother. There is competition there.
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He added: “When I wrote this, I remembered that William had a beard and that his grandmother and other people told him that he should shave it off.” The duke then explained to his grandmother that his beard was “a shield against anxiety” and that this was the reason for the different standard.
Harry believed that his mother might still be alive
Harry was 12 years old when his mother, Princess Diana, died in a car accident while being chased by paparazzi in Paris. For many years as a teenager, the young prince believed his mother might still be alive and simply disappeared to escape the pressures of public life. “I refused to accept that he was gone. Part of “He would never have done this to us” is also part of “It’s all part of the plan.” He said he would discuss this hope with William, who had similar thoughts. He believed one day: “He will call us and we will join him.
It wasn’t until Harry turned twenty and asked to see photos of the car accident that killed Princess Diana that he gave up on the fantasy of seeing his mother again. As she looked at the photos, she realized that the last thing her mother saw before her death was the camera flash.
Harry experimented with drugs to ease his grief
At first, Harry says he dealt with his grief with alcohol, marijuana, and cocaine. He credits his military career with saving him from losing control.
As an adult, Harry experimented with other drugs in a much more controlled environment. He said he used psychedelics, including ayahuasca, psilocybin and mushrooms, in a controlled space to deal with his mother’s grief.
“I would never recommend that people do it for fun, but if you’re going through a great loss, grief or trauma, you have to do it with the right people,” she said. he declared. . “For me, they cleaned the windshield, the windshield, the agony of loss.”
Harry says Camilla “sacrificed” him for her “personal publicity”.
Cooper said this during the interview Spare Harry’s stepmother was particularly innovative when it came to the portrayal of Camilla, the current Queen wife. As children, both William and Harry begged their fathers not to marry Camilla. “We thought it would do more harm than good, and if he was with his man now, that was enough,” he told Cooper. “We wanted him to be happy.”
But Harry was suspicious of Camilla because her reputation was so bad in the British press. Harry’s father, King Charles, admitted to having an affair with Camilla for many years while Harry was married to his mother, Diana. Diana once said of Camilla: “There were three of us at this wedding, so it was a bit much.” Harry says that Camilla will have to work on endearing herself to the British public after this revelation, and that she will share secrets about other royals with the press to do this.
“His need to restore his image made him dangerous because he made false connections in the British press. And there was openness to trade information on both sides,” he said in an interview. “The family is based on hierarchy, and when she’s about to become queen, people or bodies are left on the streets because of that.”
According to Anderson Cooper, Harry writes in the book that Camilla “sacrificed me for a personal PR quirk.”
The royal family did not invite Harry on the plane to rush to the Queen’s deathbed
He was in London for a charity event last September, when the palace announced that his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, was being monitored by doctors at Balmoral Palace in Scotland. “I asked my brother, and I said, ‘What are your plans?’ How are you and Kate? Then a few hours later, all the family members living in Windsor and Ascot were hopping on a 12, 14, maybe 16 seater plane together… I wasn’t invited.
By the time Harry reached Balmoral on his own, the Queen was dead.
Harry says he’s doing an interview to talk to his family
Even before the book was published, Harry was criticized for dishing out his family’s dirty laundry rather than dealing with them privately. When Cooper challenged Harry on the matter, Harry said that writing a book and doing real interviews was the only way he could communicate with his family.
“Every time I tried to do this in person, there were briefings, information and stories against me and my wife,” he said. “Trying to speak in a language they understand, I want to sit here and tell the truth in my own words, not lies or tabloid stories, without using someone else, an anonymous source. It radicalizes its readers to harm my family – my wife, my children.
Harry and Meghan are ready to apologize and reconcile
It’s hard to imagine Harry and William sharing the close relationship they once had after the announcement. Spare. The book details, among other things, a physical altercation between the two brothers, which ended when William grabbed Harry by the collar and pushed him to the ground before asking him to keep the incident a secret. Harry confirmed in an interview that he had not spoken to his father or brother for a “good time”.
Harry, meanwhile, continues to bemoan the palace’s silence on matters affecting his family. Cooper published an article in a British tabloid Sun The author was written by a TV presenter who said he dreamed Meghan was walking naked on the streets of Britain. Sarai didn’t answer the disturbing part. “There comes a time when silence is betrayal,” Harry said.
The Duke of Sussex said he “doesn’t see” returning to life as a full-time royal, but said the “ball is in their court” in terms of a personal reconciliation. “We sincerely apologize for anything we’ve done wrong.”
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